I'm not an expert movie critic or examiner by any means. But it seems to me from the comments to this date, that many reviewers may have missed something very important to this film. True, it has many aspects that lend to its quality. Most have noted the humor, intrigue, curiosity, and some emotional and psychological ties. But the overriding foundation of the story was in the fear and dislike among the community for the main character, Felix Bush, and in his role relating to those people. What a great irony there, where so many people over the past 40 years have grown up with various wild stories about some heinous things Bush did in his past. It's ironic, because we don't really hear what most of those are. And, then we find out at the end that he did, in fact, have a horrible incident in his past life.
After Bush learns that an old acquaintance has died, he visits the grave only to find a few flowers and a couple of cards left there. So, he decides to plan a funeral party for himself, and to invite everyone who has a story to tell about him to come. This means that he must come out of his reclusive home in the backwoods. As he does so, we have some nice vignettes of humor with him and the funeral home owner and his employee. The community begins to warm up to him some, and he to the community, it seems. But by the day of the festive advance-funeral party, it is clear that Bush did, in fact, have a dark and tragic past.
By this time, the viewers, and most of the characters themselves in the movie, begin to understand why this old hermit has lived alone for the past 40 years. He was escaping a dark past — or was he really trying to escape it? The unfolding of this simple question gives sense to the whole movie, and to this eccentric hermit's life. And, now, for the first time, we can all see the real humaneness, the true personality, and redeeming character of a man who has lived with memories of a lifelong nightmare. And, we now see his real reason for wanting the funeral party for all to come to.
The masterful script and directing didn't really give us any clues to help unravel the mystery. The wonderful backwoods setting and scenes painted a picture of a lonely man living withdrawn from the world. And the unfolding of the story slowly brings to life all the main characters as they relate to this most unusual time in their lives. The acting is superb by everyone. I agree with those who said Robert Duvall should be in the running for an Oscar. But I think at least two other actors should equally be in the running for supporting roles — Bill Murray and Lucas Black. Sissy Spacek, Bill Cobbs, and a handful of others also gave top notch performances.
This is unquestionably the finest story with great character and outstanding acting of any movie I have watched that was produced in the past year. And, it's nearly squeaky clean. I highly recommend it.