I'm no militant feminist and I admit to being a hopeless romantic, but this movie was just too much! I happen to like both Charles Boyer and Margaret Sullivan, but I can't say the same for the characters they play, Walter and Ray.
They fall in love, but Walter's engaged to another woman, whose father will be a big help to his career ambitions. Despite this, they plan to marry but circumstances prevent this from happening. When they mee again, after five years, both are successful in their careers, Walter's married with two children and that should have been that, except it wasn't. The next thing you know, Ray puts aside her career and her other aspirations, and becomes Walter's mistress. She loves and is devoted to him, there's nothing more important to her than him, but it's clear that Walter doesn't feel the same. While he does love her (or maybe I should say he loves her in his way), he wouldn't consider putting her before his career, social status, and the marriage that gave him both. In fact, he even told Ray at one point (when she was unhappy about how little she saw of him, especially after finding out he had returned from an extended trip and took his time about visiting her) that she had a place in his life, but only a place, whereas she had made him her whole life. Big mistake!
An even bigger mistake is when she returns to her hometown and reconnects with curt, her former boyfriend, who's still in love with her. He offers her a chance for her own life, a home and family, and she almost accepts him, then turns him down after meeting Walter again. Afterward, despite her limited time with him, despite gossip, despite the hatred of his children, who find out about the affair, Ray stands by her man (just not in public) until he dies, and she soon follows.
How pathetic! The movie should have been called "Back Seat", since that's what Ray took when it came to Walter. What a pity!